Monday, April 27, 2009

Observations and whining

Alrighty, I have not posted for a long time. It can't be helped, since this sem I've been quite busy and there are many changes I had to deal with.

Ok, so my current life observation based on my current mood might be pretty biased, but I feel the need to whine and complain a little. So recently, I've split myself off from one of the few social ties I have. Yeah, I don't really feel the need to work on my life socially. But those people I call friends are those that I do defend when it matters. But sometimes it gets tiring when you've been taken for granted.

Cue sigh.

It's times like this that I realize I do try to keep a friendship alive, but then it feels like I'm the only one trying. That's all fine and well, but when I get tired and stop trying it, so called 'friends' don't even bother to try instead.

Sometimes I get accused of not trying, but in truth, I feel like no one realizes what we try to do in the first place. If people can just push the blame to everyone else, then there will never be peace in this world.

Point in fact : the concept of friends and friends are overrated.

anyone can prove me wrong? Because I really wish I am wrong.

2 comments:

misterie said...

I've stumbled upon this blog for a while now. Since you openly asked,

"anyone can prove me wrong?"

I'll give my opinion on this.

You said that the concept of friends and friends are overrated. I'm not trying to prove you wrong here, but do you have friends who help you through thick and thin? People who will always be there for you even if you do take them for granted? Because if you do, the the concept of friends is not that overrated.

So called 'friends'? Why do you even stay in the 'friendship'? Go stick with the people who actually care to be friends with you, should there be any.

Ps: If people turn their back on you, kick their derriere.

Imitating Loneliness said...

Hey, thanks for poking around in this boring ol' blog. Heh, don't mind it, actually most of my entries here are rants in fits of overflowing emotions >< naturally, that case doesn't appliy to all friends; I assure you I have a few very good friends too. But they're far away, and some couldn't be there for me when their own lives are busy, busy, busy too.

As to why I didn't just kick them out on their butts, it's just cos I still care, I guess, even if the feelings aren't reciprocated. But I'm definitely trying to now.

Thanks for dropping a line here; it's very much appreciated! ^^